To tell the truth, I do not particularly like to record sermons. Delivering them in person was much more personal and relational. Recording them seems more like a production. But Covid 19 calls the shots these days, and it’s best for me, and for everyone else, to adapt to that reality.
And as I never tire of repeating, there are silver linings to everything. One silver lining to recording sermons is that I can’t tell if no one laughs at my jokes. And speaking of jokes, I’ll share an end-of-the-semester joke I just heard from a colleague of mine at Elmhurst University. I’ve got nothing to risk, after all.
A student sat down before a final examination that consisted of true/false questions. To the professor’s dismay, the student promptly removed a coin from his pocket and started tossing it then marking the answer sheet. His method of answering the questions allowed him to complete his exam before his fellow students. When the professor began to collect the exams at the end of class, the student again got out his coin and began tossing it feverishly. The professor, now thoroughly chagrined, asked the student what in the world he was doing. “Checking my answers,” he said.
Regardless whether you laughed at my joke, it points up an obvious truism. Coins have two sides. But is the truism really so obvious? So often we act as though coins have only one side.
Case in point. There’s one thing we all have in common -- everyone of us. We have all been wronged. We may have been wronged by our parents as children, or as adults for that matter. We may have been wronged by our siblings. We may have been wronged by our friends. We may have been wronged by our spouses. We may have been wronged by our coworkers. We may have been wronged by someone totally random, like a drunk driver or a criminal. Everyone one of us has been wronged -- neglected, abused, insulted, betrayed, harmed, misunderstood, falsely accused, gossiped about, etc., etc.
And we bear wounds from this -- wounds of indignation and outrage, wounds of hurt and sorrow. These wounds are painful, and they’re slow to heal, if they ever do. Because it’s hard to get over being wronged. It’s hard to put it to rest. It’s always lurking just beneath the surface, and surface it does. So we dwell on it; we analyze it, we relive it again and again. But that’s just one side of the coin. Coins have two sides.
Because there’s another thing we all have in common -- every one of us. We have all wronged others. It is harder for us to acknowledge this side of the coin. It makes you wonder why this is. According to the Bible, it’s our nature. Look at Adam, the distillate of us all. “The woman, whom you gave to be with me, she gave me the fruit, and I ate.” It wasn’t my fault. It was the fault of the woman. And who gave me that woman in the first place? It’s our nature. We evade our guilt. We make excuses for it. We project it onto others. But it’s also our nature
to know that it’s our nature, to know deep down that we are guilty.
At the end of the day, we can’t evade it. Not just because deep down we know it, but because to evade it is to evade the words of Jesus Christ, and the words of Jesus Christ in the Sermon on the Mount. Even if you aren’t a Christian, evading the words of Jesus Christ in the Sermon on the Mount is a pretty gutsy move. Regardless of your convictional persuasion, do you really think you know better than him?
Jesus, as we heard in our gospel lesson, was taking on the Pharisees. The Pharisees were the religious elites of Jesus’ day. That’s hard to believe, because to hear Jesus tell it, they actually used to stand on the street corners and pray dramatically as a kind public performance as if to say to passers by, not to mention God,
Feast your eyes upon my righteousness! Of course Jesus took them on.
Jesus then went on to teach his followers how to pray - He taught them The Lord’s Prayer, which we’ve all prayed thousands of times. What about that one line? “Forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors.” The word debt has nothing to do with money. The line means, precisely, forgive us for those we have wronged as we forgive those who have wronged us. Jesus knew it. We are wronged by others, and we wrong others. The coin has two sides.
It’s the last Sunday of Advent. You’ve been warned Sunday by Sunday throughout Advent to repent. There’s no escape for it. It’s all over the lectionary. First, we are confronted by apocalyptic images depicting a final judgment as a motivation to repentance. Then we are confronted by John the Baptist. screaming his lungs out on the subject. Then we are confronted by Jesus himself declaring, “...The Kingdom of God has come near. Repent, and believe in the gospel.”
There’s no escape for it, in the last analysis, because it’s the whole burden of Advent. And when we admit to ourselves and then to God that we’ve wronged others, it puts the fact that we have been wronged by others into clearer perspective. It makes us more forgiving of those who wronged us and more regretful for wronging others. And this is the fertile soil for repentance.
And why are repentance and Advent two sides of a coin, so to speak? It is something of a downer after all, and completely antithetical to society’s yearly Advent bombardment - blaring music, glaring lights, and above all crass inducements to consume. It is because to deny repentance it to deny the cross of Jesus Christ. It’s the reason he was born in that manger, after all, to bear his cross, to die for our sin. So to deny repentance is to say to Jesus Christ, “You might have died for others, but you didn’t die for me.”
A coin has two sides: Good news can be hard news. Amen.
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