The Prodigal Son was a lost cause if ever there was one; and it’s hard, really, to understand why. He was surrounded by positive role models. Take his father. We know from how the parable begins that his father was a successful man and a man of means. We know from how the parable ends that his father was a man of compassion, mercy, and forgiveness. And take his elder brother. He was the epitome of a dutiful son. At his own word, he served his father the whole of his life, never disobeying him, not even once. Would that we all had such a son. The Prodigal Son was surrounded by positive role models, and you could even say more than this. You could say that he was surrounded by ideals.
But some people, for some reason, hate their ideals, and hate them with a murderous hatred. Cain springs to mind. He hated his ideal Abel with a murderous hatred. And why is this? Why do they hate their ideals? It’s complicated, but I think at the root of it they really hate themselves. They know deep down that they are simply not the stuff of their ideals, and they never will be. They project their own self-hatred onto their ideals. They grow jealous and resentful and bitter. They grow hateful.
Such is likely the case with the Prodigal Son, which accounts for the fact that he just wanted to get away from them. He had grown completely blind to how lucky he was to have them; and in his blindness he made an outrageous demand. He demanded his inheritance in advance of his father’s death in order to fund his getaway.
Life tends to catch up with people of low character, and it caught up with the Prodigal Son. Had he not low character he could have established himself at a safe distance from his father and his brother. He could have established himself somewhere that the unfavorable comparison was not always staring him in the face. He now had the means after all.
I have a friend from high school whose father was a renowned transplant surgeon. He had two older brothers who followed in his father’s footsteps and became successful physicians in their own right. But I think my friend had a learning disability. They didn’t diagnose them much back in those days. They mostly punished you for them. My friend had difficulty reading. His two older brothers would have been a tough act to follow even without his learning disability. My friend could have gone the way of the Prodigal Son, but he didn’t. Yes, he knew he had to get away from them, so he moved to a rural area where it’s no shame to be a poor reader. He got a job driving a forklift. He discovered that he really liked working with heavy equipment, eventually bought a couple excavators and opened his own land restoration business, which became very successful. Over the years he came to terms with the fact that he was the black sheep of the family. He now has great respect for his brothers and father, and they for him. The point is that the Prodigal Son did not have to squander his inheritance on prostitutes. He did it because he was a lost cause.
But was he? Was he really? After he squandered his inheritance on prostitutes, he was at the brink of ruin. He found himself starving to death with no hope of rescue or respite. It was life or death for him. And he chose life. For the first time he saw it all clearly. For the first time he admitted it. He was not the equal of his father and brother. He never would be. He would have to face that fact and reconcile himself to it. He was, in fact, more suited to be their servant than their kin. He conveyed as much to his father, but his father did not share the same view. He was, rather, overjoyed that his son was not a lost cause.
So I guess the old adage is true. Where there’s life, there’s hope.
So perhaps the Prodigal Son was not a lost cause after all, but that does not change the fact that there are lost causes out there. Their death is what proves the fact. One of the best books I’ve read about mental illness, and I’ve read a lot of them, is No One Cares About Crazy People.
It’s about a man who had two sons, both of whom were diagnosed with schizophrenia. As a matter of fact, the man kind of reminds me of the Prodigal Son’s father. He devoted his whole life to them, did everything in his power to help them - spared no time, no money, no resource. No matter how bad things got, he never gave up on them. Still one of his sons committed suicide in his early 20’s. He discovered his son’s body. And as he beheld his dead son, he heard his voice saying, “I am sorry Dad. I am sorry.” Imagine that. Imagine living that reality. Now his son was a lost cause.
But you don’t need to read about lost causes in books. Over the years the bodies pile up - those who die from mental illness or addiction; despair or loneliness. The Prodigal Son may not be one of them, but there are lost causes out there, and that makes life a tragedy.
But here’s the thing. Jesus Christ never said where there’s life there’s hope. That was Cicero. Jesus Christ said where there’s death there’s hope. Think about Lazarus. Think about the son of the widow at Nain. Think about the daughter of Jairus. He raised them all from the dead. He demonstrated that he had power over death, but that was not the fullness of it. His power over death did not extend merely to the resuscitation of corpses. When he raised himself up that first Easter morning, he demonstrated that his power over death was limitless. He could imbue death with his own eternal life.
So ultimately, there are no lost causes. There is no tragedy. There is, through Jesus Christ, only triumph. This is why he has stirred the hope in the human breast down through the centuries, and despite the skeptical age in which we live, he will ever stir hope.
And he lived, and he died, so that we would become people of hope. He calls us to declare with the apostle Paul, “Where, O Death, is your victory? Where, O Death, is your sting?” Amen.