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Silver Linings

Rebecca Clancy

Luke 10:25-37

I was driving home from the University of Chicago’s Comer’s Children Hospital last week during rush hour traffic. When I glanced at my GPS and saw that I had over an hour yet to drive, I grew disheartened and impatient. After about forty-five minutes, I again glanced at my GPS. It still indicated that I had over an hour yet to drive. Apparently, there had been an accident. My new son was already fussing from his lengthy tenure in his car seat. “Bad ending to a bad day,” I thought to myself. I turned on the radio. I couldn’t believe the song that was playing. The fates seemed to be tormenting me. It was Summertime, and the Living is Easy. “Really, Gershwin?” I said aloud. “The living has not been all that easy this summer.” 

Because it hasn’t. In fact it has been really hard. It has to do with my new son’s medical condition. I knew there were issues, but I didn’t know what I was getting into. Do we ever know, though, what we are getting into? When we adopt a child? When we have a baby? When we get married? When we buy a house? When we volunteer to take something on? If we ever knew what we were getting into, we would never act. We’d be paralyzed. I guess what tripped me up were false assumptions. I assumed I could handle anything. I assumed I could force simple answers upon complex problems. I assumed the medical establishment could do anything. So I didn’t know what I was getting into.

I won’t bore you with the details, but from the start it was all bad news. There were issues I knew about were worse than had been disclosed, and there were several issues that had not been disclosed. Every test directed us to another specialist with another test. That test then directed us to still another specialist with still another test. Then there were tests that had to be retaken due to error. It was an endless proliferation before we even got to the stage of the exploratory surgeries. We found ourselves commuting to the hospital every day. And in all this process nothing was actually done to correct anything. This was all just the warm up. On top of it all was the worry, the anxiety, the complete loss of control.
 
Finally came the first of several major surgeries. But then, suddenly, my son improved, so things improved. A friend of mine had been calling every day. “Things are getting better now,” I reported. “Well they couldn’t have gotten any worse,” was her retort. Her comment really hit me, because it confirmed my experience that yes, it has been really hard.

The experience made me finely attuned to the hardships people bear every day, most of them infinitely worse than mine. You couldn’t avoid being exposed to those hardships being at the hospital all the time. I made friends with someone who had been commuting back and forth to the hospital like me. Her daughter was born nearly three months premature. One day she approached me looking stricken and haggard -- shell shocked. “She’s not going to make it,” she said. And she didn’t. And you don’t have to be in the hospital to be exposed to the hardships people bear every day. A pastor in my town just lost her second husband – the first to the war in Afghanistan and the second to cancer. She is only 30 years old. If things are going well for you at the present, be grateful. Be so grateful. Because, as you yourselves no doubt know, there are people all around you bearing hardships.

So how are hardships to be born? I can only speak for myself, but I can speak to what got me through mine. It was the silver linings -- the silver linings, and there were many. A woman who I didn’t even know that well -- she works at the local library --said she’d take the day off work and sit with me the day of the surgery. She met me at the hospital at 6 a.m. with flowers and coffee. When the surgeon emerged five hours later, she reached over and squeezed my hand. Another woman I’ve never even met heard somehow that my son had the same condition as hers. She sent me an email with words of encouragement and hope, and best of all pictures of her son, now to the other side of his surgeries – a happy and healthy little boy.
When we were finally released from the hospital, a friend brought over dinner and wine, and as we talked for hours reminiscing about our lives. For an evening I forgot my cares. And so many people prayed for me and with me.

It was the silver linings. As I experienced them, it struck me that they are from God. For though God ordains that none should escape reality, he ordains too to ease the burden reality imposes. The silver linings then are reminders of this truth. They are reminders of his presence. They are reminders of his goodness. They are reminders of his care. After all, they’re all over Scripture. Look at the parable I just read. Like the Parable of the Prodigal Son that I preached on two weeks ago, it’s about many things. It yields ongoing interpretations. Today, let it be about silver linings.

It had been really hard for the man in the parable too. He definitely falls under the category of people bearing hardships infinitely harder than mine. He was walking along the road from Jerusalem to Jericho, when he was attacked by robbers. Not only was he robbed but he was beaten half to death. I often wonder why robbers have to brutalize their victims. Someone in this congregation described a robbery to me in which the robber, after stealing after stealing someone’s possessions, shot him in the face. Why? Why did they have to beat him half to death? And that mercilessly? Half to death? It’s hard to imagine that reality.

What vivifies it for me is the movie The Laramie Project. It’s about a young gay man named Matthew Shepard who was beaten to death with sadistic cruelty. It’s a real eye opener, what that poor young man experienced, if you have the stomach for it. Anyway, it depicts just about what happened to the man in the parable. Think of his suffering – the pain, the anguish, the utter vulnerability. I can’t imagine any greater vulnerability, except maybe hanging from a cross.

But then – some relief; some rescue in sight -- the approach of a man. And even better, a religious man, a priest. But the priest only avoided him. He had no intention of wrestling with that bloody pulp. His hopes were dashed, but then the approach of another. Surely, he would help. But he only did the same thing. His cause was lost. No one would stop for him. I bet we’ve all morbidly wondered how we would meet our deaths. Well this is the way he would meet his. Then along came a Samaritan, of an enemy people of his people. This was it. Surely he would finish him off. But he stopped. He cleaned and bandaged his wounds. He set him upon his own animal. Tended him as though he were his own child and provided for his ongoing care.

The parable, of course, focuses on the Samaritan and not the other man. It does not say how he reacted to a hardship so hideous and a silver lining so bright. I’d be willing to wager that the silver lining all but made the hardship worthwhile. Because through it all he learned the truth of the gospel – that love is the answer. And the lesson for all of us is obvious and straightforward. We must be silver linings. And we all can be - every one of us. Because it’s not hard. Believe me, I know from experience, people bearing hardships are easy to please. All it takes is a word of kindness, hope, or encouragement. All it takes is your presence. All it takes is a visit. All it takes is a note. All it takes is a hug. Small gestures can be huge. Because those small gestures point to the truth of all existence – that there is darkness, yes to be sure. There is darkness. But that’s not all. Light shines in the darkness that the darkness can never overcome. And that light is Jesus Christ, who will one day blaze victorious. All praise be unto him. Amen.

By Rebecca Clancy August 3, 2022
Pharaoh, King of Egypt, enslaved the People of Israel. It was not out, as you might assume, out of cruelty. It was, rather, out of judiciousness. The People of Israel were not Egyptians. They were foreigners. They were the rough equivalent of what we today would call the undocumented. So now as then they were deemed to be threats. Add to this that the People of Israel grew increasingly numerous, as numerous even as the Egyptians themselves. This intensified the threat. In those numbers they could simply take over. Or Egypt’s enemies could induce them to fight for them, as a kind of built in fifth column. Pharaoh, King of Egypt, had to act. And so he enslaved the People of Israel. It was the judicious thing to do. But his judiciousness was not rewarded. In slavery, unpredictably, their numbers only increased. Pharaoh’s patience with the People of Israel grew thin. Judiciousness then crossed over to cruelty. He ordered the Hebrew midwives to murder the infant boys as they delivered them. That would thin their ranks. But the Hebrew midwives refused to do so, and with their refusal, civil disobedience was born. They chose to heed God not man. But Pharaoh King of Egypt was not so easily undone. He ordered his army to search out the infant boys and throw them into the Nile. Thereafter, cruelty no doubt took on a life of its own. Pharaoh King of Egypt rightly ranks with the likes of Caligula, Nero, Hitler, Stalin, and Mao. One wonders why it is that so many who rise to power become murderous and maniacal tyrants. The human cost - the suffering and misery and despair and tragedy -- are unimaginable and incalculable. Against this backdrop, a woman from the house of Levi gave birth to a healthy and beautiful infant boy. It would normally be the occasion for celebration and joy, but it was for her the occasion for anguish. When a child is born, a mother’s first instinct is protectiveness. But how could she possibly protect him? She thought desperately at first that she could hide him, and she did so for several months, but that could not go on forever. He could any day be discovered. The lesser of two evils was to abandon him to his fate. So she plastered a reed basket with bitumen and pitch, and she cast her hope upon the water. Low and behold, the daughter of Pharaoh happened upon the basket. She peered into it, beheld the crying infant, and she had compassion. The daughter of Pharaoh has never received the appreciation and respect she deserves. She is, inexplicably, overlooked. What she did was exemplary. Normally when people enslave others, they find justification for it. The enslaved are not deemed the equal of their enslavers. They are deemed subhuman. Slavery, therefore, is a necessity. More than this, it is morally right. That’s what the South advanced in this country, after all. But the daughter of Pharaoh did not fall prey to justification. She had compassion. And she acted upon that compassion. Here is an important reminder. It is not enough to have compassion. To have compassion, or any other altruistic emotion for that matter, does not make you a good person. You must act upon it. If you have compassion and you do not act upon it, that makes you decidedly less than a good person. As Martin Luther King, Jr. famously declared, “The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.” And here is something truly astounding. Her act was to adopt him. That was, to say at the least, a courageous thing to do. It certainly would not have put her in good stead with her father. I can just imagine it. “Father, I have a surprise for you. You have a new grandson.” Such an announcement could only have dumbfounded him, but his confusion would have given way to horror as she went on, “I have adopted an infant boy from among your slaves.” If nothing else, we can now set the record straight. We can give Pharaoh’s daughter the appreciation and respect that she deserves. But we can do more than that. As I said, she is exemplary, and so we can follow her example. We can show compassion to those who have cast their hope upon the water. Yes, a mother forced by dire circumstance to give her child up for adoption, hoping that her child will be loved and cherished. But too, one with an atypical identity, hoping to be accepted for who he or she really is. One of a different race, creed, or income level seeking to relocate, hoping not that she will be welcomed, for that would be too high a hope; but hoping she will be at least be tolerated. One who has transgressed, hoping he will be forgiven. One who has something difficult to impart, hoping she will be understood. We can show compassion for those who have cast their hope upon the water. For someone greater, much greater than Pharaoh’s daughter did the same. “Jesus, Son of David, have mercy on us!” “My daughter has just died. Come and lay your hand on her, that she may live.” “Even now I know that God will give you whatever you ask of him.” “Jesus, come before my son dies.” “Lord, if you choose, you can make me clean.” “Have mercy on me, Lord, Son of David, for my daughter is tormented by a demon.” “Lord, have mercy on my son, for he is an epileptic and suffers terribly.” “Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom” They cast their hope on him. And he showed compassion for them all. And when we cast our hope on him, he will show compassion for us -- unlimited even by a cross. Amen.
By Rebecca Clancy August 3, 2022
I attended a funeral recently. It was for my high school math teacher. He was one great guy. Everyone loved him. He taught math at my high school for forty years, and he also coached wrestling. By the time he retired, he had become something of a legend in his own time. The funeral was upbeat, not like so many funerals that are so very sad. He lived a full and long life, and we gathered to celebrate that. But for one man – a classmate of mine who wrestled for him. He was absolutely devastated. I approached him in the parking lot after the funeral and asked if he was okay. He broke down. “That man was everything to me,” he said. “I was O.K. so long as he was in the world.” Then he shared his story. His mother died when he was very young. His father was a physically and emotionally abusive alcoholic. By the time he was in high school, he was far down a bad road. He hadn’t the support to do well at school, so he didn’t. He was very angry, so he was a behavior problem. The only friends he could make were kids like himself, so he hung out with a tough crowd. And he had begun to dabble in drugs. He was pretty much a lost cause at the age of sixteen. Enter my math teacher. He approached him one day out of the blue and told him he could tell by his gait that he was born to wrestle. This could only have been a ruse to intervene. Even I, who knows nothing about wrestling, am suspicious that you can identify one born to wrestle by his gait. At any rate, the ruse worked. He intervened. And he made him into a great wrestler. On top of that, he made him into a great young man. His advice, understanding, and support were unwavering. He helped him to deal with his past in such a way that it didn’t destroy him. He filled his present with new found responsibility, purpose, structure, and discipline. And he paved his way to a future. After graduation he went to college on a wrestling scholarship and eventually became a doctor. “I feel so lost,” he concluded his story. “What am I going to do now?” While he was sharing his story, I could not help but think how hard life can be. We here are generally prosperous and privileged, so we can afford to put up a front. But behind that front life can be hard. Because it’s out there -- loss, abuse, addiction, and a host of other afflictions. It’s enough to make you lose your way. And as I said, we here are generally prosperous and privileged. What if the loss, abuse, and addiction are compounded by poverty or racism? Then it’s all but a foregone conclusion. Your way is lost. Yes, life can be hard. Life takes casualties. Lots of them. It can make us feel helpless and overwhelmed. We want to make things better, but what could we possibly do? The answer is no farther away than my late math teacher. What could we possibly do to make things better? We could reach out, like he did. And what is in view here is not merely a good example, although we must never underestimate the power of a good example and must always strive to be one. But there’s more in view than that. It has to do with the Bible. The Bible may seem like a forbidding book. For one thing it’s thousands of pages long. It makes War and Peace look like a short story. For another thing, it’s unimaginably ancient. The Bible’s story begins 2,000 years before the Common Era. I just read that a sizable portion of millennials don’t know what the Holocaust was. To them that’s ancient history - a mere 75 years back. The Bible is more than 4,000 years back. That’s unimaginably ancient. For yet another thing, it traffics in extremely complicated and sophisticated theology, plumbing in its unfolding the depths of such mysteries as our nature, the predicament that our nature has landed us in, and the means of our redemption. And it does so all the while purging itself of false starts or conclusions. So it may seem forbidding. But at the same time, ironically, the Bible lends itself to succinct summaries. Here’s one: God lives. Here’s another: Good triumphs over evil. And another: Love triumphs over fear. And another: Practice universal justice. And another: Love one another. And here’s one that’s right on point: Reach out. The Bible can be summarized in just two words. Reach out. Think about it. That’s what God did. God reached out. God reached out to Abraham and told him that from him would one day issue a nation, and not just any nation, but a nation that would somehow bless all the nations by bestowing upon them redemption. God reached out to Moses and bequeathed him an ethical law so that God’s people could bear his righteousness. God reached out to David and told him that from his descendants would emerge one who would embody that redemption. And that one in the fullness of time emerged. God reach out to his son. He told him that if he would make a great sacrifice, the greatest sacrifice, it would be the means for all people to reach out to one another. In a real way. A way that advanced God’s own being and cause. And his son made that sacrifice. And in his brief ministry that preceded that sacrifice, he reached out to everyone. And I mean everyone. Lepers. Prostitutes. Beggars. Even a bitter little man perched up in a sycamore tree. So reaching out is not just a good example. It is nothing less the mechanism that God that employs to bestow redemption. Yes, life can be hard. Paul knew this. “We would prefer to be away from the body and at home with the Lord.” But Paul goes on. “So we must make it our goal to please him, whether we are at home in the body or away from it.” And this means reaching out. “I feel so lost now. What am I going to do?” asked my grieving classmate. I told him that his coach had already showed him what to do. I told him to reach out. Amen.
By Rebecca Clancy August 2, 2022
Jesus was always one to bring the party. All he had to do was show up, and lots of others showed up too -- eager for engagement, eager for excitement, eager for something new. It was little wonder. Here at last was someone who had something to say. Something different. Something provocative. Something truthful. Jesus had a way of uttering truths that had never been uttered before, but at the same time, were strangely recognizable. And it was happening once again. Once again, Jesus had brought the party. He showed up at the house of Mary and Martha, and suddenly the place was filled with men who immediately took their place at his feet. This gesture was an indicator that they were ready and willing disciples. They wanted him to teach them. And so he began to teach. That was Martha’s cue. She sprang into action. After Jesus’ teaching, it would be fellowship hour, and as we all know, fellowship hour is predicated upon food. And in ancient times, you couldn’t rely on your reserves from Costco. Feeding a room full of men was labor intensive. Animals had to be slaughtered and dressed. Bread had to be baked. Water had to hauled. Martha went directly to work, expecting Mary to fall in place behind her. But what did Mary do? She went and sat at Jesus’ feet with the men -- shirking her role, defying expectations, and leaving Martha to shoulder the burden alone. I can imagine Martha’s frustration. I can imagine her passive aggressive attempts to get Mary back in the kitchen. Staring daggers at her from the threshold. Uttering loud sighs as indicators of her strain. Dropping pottery on the floor to startle Mary to awareness. But Mary took no notice. None whatsoever. Martha should have counted to ten. How much strife could be averted if we could all just remember to count to ten, or perhaps twenty. Martha for her part shot like a rocket from outrage to outburst. “I’m doing all the work in here Jesus, while Mary has yet to raise a finger. It’s hardly fair. And have you even noticed? Do you even care?” And there was doubtless more to it than the fact that Martha had to provide all the hospitality on her own. There too was the fact of what Mary was doing. She not day dreaming or singing idly out the window. She was sitting at Jesus’ feet. She was in there with the men. Martha was doubtless chagrined and embarrassed that Mary did not know her place. It certainly did not reflect well on the family. But Jesus did not vindicate Martha. Jesus chastised her, “Martha, Martha,” (and when someone says your name twice, wait for some kind of a correction to follow) “Why are you so distracted and stressed and scattered? Let it go. Mary’s right where she should be.” We’re left to wonder how Martha felt at that point. I bet she wasn’t happy. She simply didn’t get it or she would not have reacted that way in the first place. Now normally this text is interpreted as a caution against busyness. Martha with all her busyness is a prototype that we should avoid. Not that productivity is a bad thing. Idle hands are the devil’s workshop after all. But there’s a certain kind of busyness that’s not good. It’s when we become enmeshed with worldly or personal concerns and address them with obsessive application – application that mixes with pride, competition, insecurity. It becomes a kind of self-perpetuating force. And it causes us to lose all perspective. It causes us to become disoriented. We forget that we’re supposed to be at Jesus’ feet – his disciples, listening to him. And this is a fair enough interpretation, but I think there’s something else here. An elephant in the living room. Mary was right where she should be. She was at Jesus’ feet, his disciple, listening to him. But Mary was, obviously, a woman. Women did not seat themselves at the feet of rabbis. Women were not disciples. All they needed to know was taught to them by their mothers. Women did not sit side by side with men learning. It was unheard of. It was forbidden. And yet Jesus told Martha that Mary was right where she should be. Her place was with the men. Really Jesus? A woman’s place is with the men? Really Jesus? In first century Judaism? Jesus was a revolutionary and a radical, and don’t ever forget it. All down through history and even to this day there has an unspoken and inviolable code. It could be expressed as a variant of a line from the wedding ceremony. What society has divided, let no one unite. And Jesus was saying the polar opposite. A women’s place is with the men. Think about what this means by extension. Women, your place is with the men. Men, your place is with the women. Whites, your place is with blacks. Blacks your place is with whites. The wealthy, your place is with the poor, and the poor, your place is with the wealthy. The powerful, your place is with the powerless. The powerless, your place is with the powerful. The old, your place is with the young. The young, your place is with the old. Jesus was smashing down all dividing walls. His disciples are to be completely and utterly integrated. This is simply too radical, simply too revolutionary. But that’s who Jesus was. This is why he brought the party. It’s because he spoke God’s truth. Disciples are to be completely and utterly integrated, and this in service to humankind that is to be completely and utterly integrated. That all should be one. But this is so radical and revolutionary that it is very seldom approximated. It’s too hard. But is it really? Is it really that hard to forge the way? Is it really that hard to reach out? Is it really that hard to cross the aisle? To be vulnerable? To be risky? To be open? To be accepting? To be understanding? One thing’s for sure. It’s a lot easier than hanging on a cross in faith it could be so. Amen.
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