There are many proverbs that can be considered to capture, in one way or another, the spirit of the Bible:
There but by the grace of God go I.
Two wrongs don’t make a right.
Count your blessings.
All you need is love.
Every cloud has a silver lining.
Forgive and forget.
Patience is a virtue.
But there's one proverb that can, in no way, be considered to capture the spirit of the Bible. It is: Live and let live. That proverb, in fact, flies in the teeth of the spirit of the Bible. Live and let live should never be found in the mouth of any Christian.
Harsh words...you may be thinking. What could possibly be so wrong with a proverb that would seem to extol personal freedom and individual rights?
One indicator that the proverb may not be all it is cracked up to be is that was found in the mouths of the citizens of Laramie, Wyoming in the wake the murder of Matthew Shepherd. Some of you are no doubt familiar with Matthew Shepherd. The movie called The Laramie Project
was made about him. Matthew Shepherd was a freshman at University of Wyoming in Laramie. He was a distinctive young man in some respects. He was born premature and so was tiny and delicate in stature. But his diminutive size was coupled with a robust and scintillating personality. In an ironic way, he was larger than life.
Matthew Shepherd was murdered for being gay. There is no nice or pleasant way to be murdered, but Matthew's murder was particularly heinous. He was kidnapped, robbed, then tied to a fence post in an open field. He was then brutally beaten, tortured, terrorized, and left for dead. He was discovered the following day, still tied to the fence post clinging to life. His face was covered with blood and dirt except for where it had been cleansed by two tear tracks. He survived in a coma for a few days, then died.
The movie sought to understand what had happened, what sort of culture could have produced such a monstrous crime. Indeed, as the movie began, the citizens of Laramie voiced disquiet that their culture indeed had produced such a monstrous crime -- that Matthew's two murderers were from among their ranks. Somehow, they concurred, it would been easier to take if the murderers had been outsiders. But one of them? One of their own?
As the citizens of Laramie were interviewed, it soon became crystal clear how the murderers were from among their ranks. This was a typical response. I quote (and please excuse my language). “I don’t give a damn one way or another (if someone is a homosexual) so long as they don’t bother me. That’s the attitude of most of the people of Laramie. Laramie is live and let live.” There's that proverb. Live and let live.
I heard an interesting lecture at Elmhurst College a while back. It was about bullying. I thought I knew all about bullying, because I really hate bullying and seek to know it so I can combat it, but this offered a new take on it, for me at least. The lecturer contended that bullies have an uncanny knack of targeting victims they know that no one will defend. So if you think about it, then, bullies are merely mirroring back to us our own prejudices. In a way, they are merely our henchmen.
In the case of Laramie, the citizens in their interviews made it clear that they didn't much care for homosexuals. This created a culture of homophobia. The bullies, or in this case the murderers, exercised their uncanny knack of targeting a victim they knew no one would defend. And yet, in a consummate act of cognitive dissonance, at the same time, they kept asserting the validity of live and let live.
Matthew Shepherd did not stand a chance under live and let live -- not given the reality of life. That's the thing about live and let live. It doesn't begin to grasp the reality of life. Live and let live presumes that there's no one out to get anyone else. Live and let live presumes we all start out on a level playing field, and on that level playing field, I will do my thing, and you can do yours. I will bloom in my way, and you can bloom in yours. Live and let live presumes that everyone is safe to pursue personal freedom and individual rights.
But that is not, as I said, not the reality of life. There is hatred out there, and fear and violence and aggression, and it is very often directed against those no one will defend - people who are homosexuals, or of dark races, or of strange religions, or from foreign countries, or who have diseases, or who are poor. Can we really say to these people I’ll live my life and you live yours? Can we really say to these people live and let live?
Well they can't live, any more than Matthew Shepherd could live. They need our help. They need our support. They need our protection. They need our resources. They need our advocacy. They need our intervention. They need our prayers. This is why live and let live flies in the teeth of the spirit of the Bible. The Bible declares that other people, and especially those I've just delineated, are our responsibility.
This was precisely what the biblical prophets were burdened to declare to the people of Israel. Take the prophet Amos, for instance, from this morning's Old Testament lesson. Amos addressed himself to the cows of Bashan, his unflattering epithet for the wealthy matrons of society. They lived on top of Mount Samaria - roughly the equivalent of Beverly Hills. They cows of Bashan would have been all for live and let live. Because they were women of great privilege, live and let live to them meant living lives of impervious and complacent self-indulgence. Who were they really hurting, besides perhaps their husbands, at whom they carped, "Bring that I may drink?"
Amos happened to think that they were hurting someone. He thought that by their indolence, their indifference, their self-vaunting, they were hurting those who lived at the foot of Mount Samaria. At the foot of the mountain lived the poor. Amos' were times economic disparity, like our own times, but worse, much worse.
Amos lived in a time when at the top of Mount Samaria the cows of Bashan lounged on furniture made of ivory. Yes, ivory. We all know where ivory comes from. It comes from Elephant tusks. Elephants weren't native to the region. Their tusks had to be imported from Africa. The expense must have been astronomical. Nonetheless, it was the current badge of affluence so the cows of Bashan had to have it. At the foot of Mount Samaria were debtor prisons.
It was, and is, very easy for the poor to find themselves deeply in debt. They simply cannot pay what the system costs, or you could even say what the system extracts. You can't get blood from a turnip, as another proverb advances. And so the system punished them for their non-payment with interest, fines, etc. Deeper and deeper grew the hole they were in. This may sound familiar. And so they were sold into debtor prison.
The jailer paid off their debts, in exchange for which he exploited them through lengthy terms of hard labor. Families were separated or worse, children indentured as well. Live and let live? But how could they live? This is what enraged Amos into epithet. The poor, Amos declared, were the responsibility of the cows of Bashan. And so Amos declared God judgment upon them.
The prophets of Israel did not agree on everything, but they did agree on this. If we bid others, live and let live, it is our responsibility strive for their life. This is the reality of existence. If the citizens of Laramie had, Matthew Shepherd would still be alive today.
Jesus in our gospel lesson asked a simple question, "What more are you doing than others?" What he meant was, what more are you doing than those who would say live and let live? He expects us as his followers to do more. To take risks. To take initiative. To act. To make sacrifices. To make the most revolutionary and dangerous witness that can be made - the witness of love in the face of hatred.
Christians do not leave others to their own devises. Any more than Jesus left us to ours. Amen.